Welcome to this world

Sadly, some kids' parents are tyrannical monsters, and for that, those children should be removed from their parents' clutches forever, but every child born into a religious family has a "supreme tyrant" to cringe to. It's really sad to think these innocent minds are being abused with this "invisible space daddy" nonsense from their very first day. When does an auditory hallucination stop being the reason for locking someone up and dosing them heavily on thorazine, and start becoming a spiritual experience? I know people who have been locked up in the local mental institution for less than hallucinations such as those suffered by religious people. How does a person know that they are talking to a god, and not to the great spaghetti monster or to another magical space daddy -- or maybe their brain has truly gone haywire? And why, if there truly is a god, why does this "all loving god" have to resort to violence, death and eternal damnation to prove his love for us? Is this a male god thing?